Love, Sex and Dating Articles -> Love and Kisses

When a loving relationship begins, the first stance between a couple is exchanging kisses. The art of kissing is extensive due the infinite variety of kisses that lovers can exchange, from tender lip kissing to deeply arousing french kisses with tongue play. According to theories, most women decide after five minutes of meeting a man whether or not she will have sex with him, but when they find out he's a bad or a mediocre kisser, they change their minds entirely. Each kiss will be different, depending on who people are kissing and how they feel about the person.

To avoid giving a bad impression, there are some tips people can follow to be good kissers. To begin, the first kiss has to be slow and gentle. People can’t open their mouths until their lips have reached each other, as they must avoid bumping teeth and make sure there’s no food in their mouths, being a good oral hygiene essential. Non-smokers usually don’t like the taste or smell of cigarettes, so giving up the habit or using peppermint drops is a good idea. When kissing, people need to make sure the other still can breathe through their nose.

It’s important to see the kiss as the destination itself, as the couple wouldn’t do anything else together, enjoying every second with each other. Using all muscles in the mouth and tongue also is crucial, because nobody wants to kiss someone whose mouth is flabby and slack. In the French kiss, which involves the couple’s tongues, the tongue can’t be completely jammed down the other’s throat, neither the exact opposite. They can vary the movements, figuring out what is pleasurable. They can, for example, rotate tongues in circular motions, suck the partner’s tongue and gently bite it.

During kissing, the couple can use hands to increase the erotic pleasure of the moment, by gently caressing the other’s face and hair. Being with eyes closes isn’t obligatory. People can try opening their eyes to stare the other while kissing, what makes the kiss more intimate. The couple has to avoid kissing, however, when one of the partners has a mouth, gum or throat infection, because the sickness can be transferred through kissing, as an estimated 250 different bacteria and viruses carried in saliva. Fortunately, there is no evidence that Aids can be caught from kissing.

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