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When continuing a relationship just brings trouble in, people has to think if they are happy with the partner and make themselves some crucial questions to know if the commitment will last or if it’s time to break up. This last step can become the most difficult part of the relationship. But, if it is getting no joy, it’s better to end it earlier rather than later. Before breaking up, however, people need to remember that communication is the key of a relationship, and if the partner doesn’t know that certain actions make the other upset, s/he can’t change anything.

If someone is thinking seriously about breaking up, it’s important to answer if it is the right decision. Only the person can know if it’s the time to end it, but some things can help to think better about it. In this situation of doubt, people can write a list of good features and bad features of the partner, talk to close friends or family, as compare the actual relationship to other past relations. People also can think if they would rather be with someone else, if they trust the partner and if they can imagine the other in their lives when they are 100 years old.

In the case of deciding for the end of the relationship, it has to be done with discretion, because the partner was someone special before and deserves consideration, with the exception of cheaters, abusers and similar. The break up has to be done personally, with the couple alone, and not over the phone or Internet. In spite of be recommended to talk with a close friend about the decision, the person has to be careful, because the partner wouldn’t like to find out from a friend.

Being honest and sincere, informing exactly why the relationship is over, will maintain the personal integrity of the person that’s breaking up. Choosing a private place to break up is also a good idea, because it can bring heavy emotions. Planning to stay friends usually don’t mean much right after a break up, because healing takes time and staying near don’t allow the partner to put the feelings out of the mind.

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