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Swing aka sexual partner swapping, is groundbreaking practice the world over. There’s no exact data as to when it appeared, although history has it that some Greek goods (like Baucus-as of the wine and sexual orgies) would be the primary adepts. Known otherwise as ménage is normal practice run at places designed specifically for this end.

It encompasses all sorts of acrobatics and nothing to establish how many participants when it comes to sexual gathering.  It might as well take two men and one woman, two women and one man or even a handful of people of various walks of life. Its followers can be gay, straight or whichever way they pleased, for it all comes down to what goes on there and then.

Some swing houses demand participants to be together, refraining from singles admittance while others have policies which allows male and female escorts in just to get it started. There may be spacious houses with plenty of rooms for all things sex. Perhaps the very same place might feature rooms with humungous beds for all the couples having sex altogether or with large rooms in which each couple stays in a corner, while being watched by other couples and yet, rooms with fixtures ( usually fabrics), for partner swapping at will.

There are well-seasoned couples in the art of swing, unfortunately, a great too many out there, still don’t go with the notion. In that, the couple must be well-switched so that both can enjoy it in a healthy and jolly way. Otherwise, it might start getting in their way.

There’s a word about couples who’d gone for it and broaden their intimacy a great deal ever since. These couples, by the way, haven’t been going through a rough patch either, but just so happens to decidedly flung the swing in to the works as one off chance for their sexual repertoire. Some others, however, had a go at it and disliked it plainly, probably because of some communication lax, or having the swap itself sparked jealousy between them two, or perhaps could have felt abused while in sexual congress, amidst other reasons.

Any given relation that’s already under strain would not be salvaged by self- indulgence in the practice of swing at all. This statement placed by those who already gone into it, whether liked or not.

Let it not go overboard that as far as sexual congress goes, your partner will get up to all sorts of tricks just like yourself would, and if there’s no trustworthy about neither mutual respect, your relation will get backwashed.

Giving it a go can be questioned by the couple, and even whether put in practice. Nevertheless, it goes without saying that it can play with the couple’s feelings yet unknown by both of them. To get down on it isn’t something done over night and far from easy, as some would think perhaps.

It takes a great deal of leverage to get it right from start. And yet, swing houses aren’t allowed in certain countries. From where I stand is legal practice likewise in many other countries. It’s down to the couple weighing it down and accepting the consequences. Usually policies would be laid down even if underlying, although placed under the guise of patterns to be followed, as of respect and coaction for all to take place in a pleasantly manner for every single participant. The choice is up to us.  

By Anne Griza
Psychologist

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