Love, Sex and Dating Articles -> Shy People and Love

As the nerd king, and also vocalist of the worldly known band, Weezer, would say: “Everybody needs some love/ shooting from the stars above”. But, in matter of fact, how do shy people play the love conquest game? Nowadays, the most effective way the lonely hearts do have of getting to meet someone, is by hanging out in clubs, pubs and parties. A good flirter must have the clue about how to get into someone he/she would never talked to. Shy people, many times, due to some inner problems, like low-self steam and rejection feelings, might be alone for many times, and that is not positive, for many reasons. Not that people must have someone to kiss and say lovely things, but it brings lots of uncomfortable thoughts about someone’s role in the society – speaking in the love language, of course.

Noise places with loud music can be lots of people’s fever. They anxiously wait for the weekend to come, so they can go out to “hunt”. Friday and Saturday are known by the week’s day where hunting is aloud, and that is all over the world. Sometimes this feeling can make shy people to feel sad about their love conquests, what can make them to feel the lasts persons in the world. According to this maxim, this kind of people start to be known as “Nerds” – introverted people more engaged on other things than just trying to increase sex times number.

“Nerd” or shy people can thank the crescent internet advent, where they can make friends, be informed about what is going on in the world, and – why not – meet some interesting girls/boys. Chat rooms were very much helpful to more quiet and silent people, since they do not need to make the real physical contact, often needed on clubs with mind-numbing music.

Not that the quoted words have some kind of prejudice against shy people. By the contrary: They are more sensitive people, and that is what many people are seeking in the love market. They can be very well succeeded in love, if they start to be more open-minded to this incredible feeling. The most important is to not keep on waiting love to knock on your door. It comes and goes; all you have to do is know how to grab it on the air. 

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