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-> Summer Love and Sex
Once more the conundrum sexuality
and sex affair presents
itself. If a quick fling imbues
sexually charged thoughts
so having a fling might be a
thing of the past. Who never
thought of the summer season
as a pick up spot for quick
sex? So thinking about
sex also means thinking
the world of our sexuality.
Let's not get mixed up with
sexuality expression
and sex for the sake
of it. Our sex therapist
tells us otherwise.
Everywhere in the globe everybody
awaits anxiously for the arrival
of their holidays so that they
can have fun, sample on new
emotions and sensations when
out and about.
Men and women, youth or grownups
usually in this period, choose
appraisable locations where
they can relax and live up bemusing
experiences and often unforgettable.
Sky resorts, paradisiacal beaches,
or rather rustic locations-
country inns, out in the rough,
farm hotels, etc, provide the
right backdrop for all that.
It's exactly what happens to
summer love. Who could forget
Grease, the movie? Its plot
takes off when the characters
of Olivia Newton John and John
Travolta get to know each other
and string up a "date",
an innocent affair, on the beach,
during summer school holidays.
Upheavals, with great soundtrack
and dance riddle all the footage
from then on.
It's this kind of loving that
I'm talking about. Whether naïve
or else, most of us already
gone through some similar experience.
It looks like teens' thing,
but it isn't.
Teens, youngsters or grown
ups, in their majority singles
when traveling seem keen on
living up this kind of relationship.
I hold that this has got to
do with people feeling rather
careless, in the mood for the
ol' one off nightstands recklessly.
The majority only wants to live
it up not having to go through
any conventional relationship,
at least during this period
of their lives.
Its unique moments or experiences
that stay kept in the memorabilia
of each one. Whatever happens
at last stays to the criteria
of fate, although the great
majority of those involved do
not get to see each other again,
some might as well keep in touch
for a long while. Others end
up bumping again, when used
to spent time always at same
locations, once again a flashback
likely to strike or perhaps
not.
Sex if there is ever
any might spree in a more immediate
mode. Two people meet up and,
almost immediately, decide to
shag each other off by obeying
their impulses alone. In this
case there might turn out to
be just that shag, as well as
keeping each other's company
during summer season.
Others, maybe from being too
romantic, after getting together,
devise seduction games in search
of the likelihood while deciding
whether surrender to each other's
arm. Herein likewise the case
above, the couple might stay
together throughout the season
or not.
Anyhow it's worth mentioning
that whether youngster or grown
up, no matter how many partners
or the intensity of sex rapport
that the moment provides it's
fundamental to wear condoms.
It could curb not just the distaste
of an eventual infection sexually
transmitted.
I chiefly believe that in both
love and sex any experience
that might turn out gratifying
and provides growth and maturing
for the human being should be
lived up with intensity.
But I can't leave without mention
that it's also needed to have
responsibility in order to keep
at bay any hint of regret, conflict
or guilt.
By
Kelly Cristine Cherulli
Psychologist
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